A lot of couples will always find difficulty in maintaining the spark in their relationships. It can be difficult to keep the flame of passion burning brightly throughout the course of a lengthy relationship. Sometimes, it takes a lot of work and effort to keep things fresh in a relationship. You always want to make your partner feel like every day spent together is a new experience waiting to happen.
You want to be able to provide each other with thousands of priceless memories all the time but you have to understand that there will be occasional lulls in your relationships. Romantic partnerships are always up and down and you have to know that’s normal. However, if you’re really wondering about the status of your relationship, you can try studying your bedroom behavior. You can look into your sex life for indicators of a good and stable relationship. So how can you tell that you have a happy bedroom lives?
Well, here are some signs that you can take note of.
1. There is constant nudity.
You’re both so incredibly at ease with each other, you never feel awkward about walking around the house in the nude. You love looking at each other’s bodies, and you always feel comfortable whenever you’re bare nude in each other’s company.
2. You always flirt with each other.
When constant flirtation is alive in your relationship, that means that both of you are still making efforts for attraction. You always try to ignite each other’s innocent passions with playful flirtation. You make the most out of the time you spend with each other by letting each other know about your deepest passions and desires.
3. You playfully make fun of each other.
You tease each other playfully without hurting each other’s feelings. Think of it as an act of endearment between the two of you. Your playful teasing is a sign that you’re confident with each other’s ability to be protective. You also show much emotional trust with someone when you allow yourself to be open to teasing.
4. You always have the urge to be around each other.
Whenever you’re not together, you find yourself thinking of your partner often. You just can’t get enough of each other and you always try to value each other’s time. You know that any time spent together is an opportunity to express your love for each other. You want to make the most out of any time you get to spend with each other.
5. You try new things with each other often.
You’re not afraid to explore each other in bed. You are always open to trying new moves and positions because you trust each other enough. Even though some of these sexual conquests aren’t necessarily in your comfort zone, you feel comfortable because of your partner.
6. You feel sexy whenever you’re around each other.
You can’t explain it. Whenever you’re around other people, all your insecurities about yourself will shine through. You think you are a very flawed and vulnerable person in public. But in private, when you’re alone with your partner, you feel like you’re an incredible human specimen with unbelievable sexual prowess.
7. You reminisce about memorable bedroom moments you’ve shared together.
You’ve had such an active sex life, you have ended up sharing lots of valuable memories with each other in bed. You talk about these memories often, and you try to replicate these experiences every once in a while.
8. You feel comfortable with being honest with each other.
You don’t ever feel the need to censor yourself. You’re very open and honest about your needs and expectations in the bed. You are also very understanding and receptive of your partner’s personal needs and you try your best to satisfy each other the best way that you can.
9. You don’t feel insecure about past flames or exes.
You know your partner has had a sexual past, but you really don’t let it bother you. You know that you’re all that matters now, and you’re practically your partner’s future. There’s no need to get insecure about previous flames and hookups.
10. You have set nicknames for each other.
You’ve reached a level of intimacy wherein you might even have nicknames set for each other; you can even take it to the next level by having nicknames for each other’s body parts.
11. You trust each other.
Whether in bed or in public, trust in a relationship is very important. If you know that you have a solid relationship that is built on pure honesty and uncompromising trust, then you’re probably safe.
12. You spend a lot of time together in the bedroom.
You don’t necessarily have to be doing the deed. You could just be snuggling up in bed and watching some television. You could just be cuddled up together and talking about whatever you want. Bedroom time is important, private, and intimate.
13. Physical intimacy is not a rarity with you.
You never feel awkward about touching each other. You know your limits though. You don’t do too much PDA because you know it makes other people uncomfortable, but you never feel awkward. You always love the feeling of each other’s touch and you crave it always.
14. You make time for sexual intimacy because it is important to you.
Anything you make time for is important to you. When you both take time out of your busy schedules to be sexually intimate, then that’s a sign that both of you value your shared sexual lives.